THE PRINCIPLES OF EXTRAORDINARY LIVING.

There are seven identified fears that are negatively impacts the attitude of individuals to success in life.
They are:
1. The fear of CRITICISM(positive or negative).
People live their under the fear of what others might say or react to what they do in life.
Most times they are afraid of condemnation,even whilst their intend act is positive but because they life under constant fear of criticism,they shy away from good cause.
Either you do it right or otherwise,one thing is certain about life,people will talk,because they have their mouth to talk. Why not go ahead to say or do what is right according to your personal conviction than been allowed and influenced by the fear of critics!

2. The Fear of loss of Liberty.
Some people essentially put themselves in perpentual bondage and life long slavery. Where their voice are supposed be heard but because of fear to loose their liberty and grip over affairs or situations,they look other side.

3. The fear of Poverty.
This is the greatest fear of most opportunist that found themselves in helms of power. The amass wealth even things they don't necessarily need because they constantly presume,without all these,they are nothing in life.
The fear of poverty breed corruption and all manner evil vices witness around the world now. Most people,especially young dont want to go the process of labour to rich but want to be wealthy overnight and remain atop.

4. Fear of Death.
It is appointed to man to live once! Death is an inevitable end of every man on earth. Once you are born(make alive),death(cease to live) is the terminal end.
People are so scare of death, that they die eventually before their prime age. The fear of death bring restlessness,depression,oppression and makes life meaningless to most people,but if fearless and accept the fact that you "came" and must sure "go" through death,life will be worthy of living and fulfilling.

5. The Fear of loss of Love.
When a person loss love,they lost trust. Human are unpredictable,they are constantly not stable and when anybody has come to term with this fact,he will fear less to loose love from anybody.
Love is not forceful,its mutual and it grows,it brings respect and it is the sweetest of all human virtues.

6. Fear of ill health and physical pains.
When our mind is set on anything,that thing get interpreted from our brain and manifest through our physical being.
The fear of sickness,attacks or any affliction has overwhelms some that they life miserably under the cause of ill health and has eat through their physical being and live permanently in their souls and spirits......out of the abundance of a man's heart,he says and act! If you health and okay in spirit,definitely you are sound physically.

7. The fear of Old Age.
Laughable....law of diminishing returns! Nothing new,used that will not get old and worn out.
If you are afraid of getting old,preserve your life..Die Young! For it is only unuse thing,kept and preserved well that will never get old!

Note: Real victory over every fear is not to fear it at all.
God dont want us to have fear or even nurse it,because He is with us and He command you not to(Ps. 23:4; Isa. 8:12; Rev. 12:11)

Culled from the powerful book: The Principles of Extraordinary Living by Dr. D. K. Olukoya.(MFM)

Body Text is by me.( Tokunbo Odusanya)

SIMPLE KEYS TO IMPROVE YOUR COMMUNICATION SKILLS

The key to improve your communication skills is to make the other person feel like they matter!
Making a person feel he/she worth all the attentions and care,  give way to freer mind,  ignite hope and affection and give him/her courage to want to really talk to you.

So how do you do that?

3 quick and easy tips to improve your communication skills are what i'll  mention here,  and its going to be in series.

Here, let me give you insight of the series to come up -
* Enthusiasm and Confidence go a long way, so go build yours and oil your engine.
* Be clear and Specific with what you want (or dont want).
* Be yourself.  People gravitate to those who are authentic,  and it's much easier to be you.

Develop the act to always use and say,  "Please",  "Thank You" and "Sorry" they ease close communication gap faster than you might think.

Politeness goes a long way when you communicating and acknowledging others.

Stay here for the series in details of the three tips.

Tokunbo Odusanya is the CEO of PartyPlanetng. An Event Planning and Management outfit.
He is also an authority in Consultancy,   Marketing and Branding of Events

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